Today I attended a Christian women's conference. I confess to generally being wary of women only events as experience tells me that they are often saccharin sweet and frilly or power hungry and man hating, neither of which particularly appeals. Not only that but I often leave these events feeling a bit rubbish about myself because unlike the key speaker I have not single handly found a cure for some horrific tropical disease whilst writing a book, raising 5 children, running a shelter for the homeless and looking like I've just stepped out of a Whistles catalogue (okay a slight exaggeration - I don't think Whistles do a catalogue but you get the gist). However the promise of some interesting speakers and lunch thrown in was enough to encourage me to sign up for my church's annual women's conference and it didn't disappoint.
Not only did I have the privilege of listening to some extroadinary stories of faith (both from the speakers and my friends), learn a bit more about the content of the bible (I have possibly the least biblical knowledge of any Christian ever) and take part in some great worship (my hubby was in the band) but I also got to catch up with some friends and wave at others from afar. I also learnt and refreshed some things that I thought I'd share with you in the hope you find it useful whether you share my faith, have a different one or none.
Firstly, everyone is precious and valuable. Perhaps if we all realised this we wouldn't be so shitty to each other and the world would be a much friendlier, safer place.
Secondly, people try to cover up how things really are so we need to make sure that we encourage and support each other. We need to offer support and mean it and create a safe environment that allows us to be open and honest and vulnerable to deepen our relationships with each other.
Thirdly, we need to stick up for those who are marginalised and vulnerable, even if it feels uncomfortable or inconvenient.
Fourthly, great things are possible. We all have amazing potential and can do great things regardless of how ill-equipped or inadequate we feel.
Fifthly, it's not all about us. We live in a society that constantly promotes selfishness and doing things only for your own benefit. Is this the basis of a healthy society? Try doing something nice/helpful for someone else. You might be surprised how good it feels!
Lastly, I learnt that I don't like minestrone soup.
All in all, a successful day!
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